I have a problem, I talk too much. I complain about things instead of creating solutions. I complain about work, even though I have great hours, great pay, great company. Instead of embracing it, focusing on the good. I think we probably all do this, for me it is a cycle.
It applies to my relationship too. James is great, he tries and he says he always will. He loves me sincerely. We have a great time together, and we celebrate life. It is wonderful to have a partner that is realistic, kind , accepting, and loves Fried chicken! Love is different things to different people. Some people could look at our relationship and think that it is boring, or political. Whereas I might think their relationship is shallow, and based on alcohol. The fact is love is a choice. Believing the best in someone is a choice. Trusting is a choice. It really is about sharing life with someone.
So be alert, and stay thankful. Live in a state of gratitude, because you never know when your life is going to change.